How to Choose the Perfect Calligraphy Style for Your Wedding Invitations
Your wedding invitations are more than just a formality—they're a feeling. From the moment your guests see their names written in custom calligraphy, they know: this is going to be a celebration to remember.
But with so many calligraphy styles to choose from—classic, modern, romantic, edgy—how do you know what fits your vibe?
Let’s break it down.
1. Match Your Calligraphy to Your Wedding Aesthetic
The best calligraphy style is the one that mirrors the tone of your event. Here’s a quick guide:
✨ Timeless & Formal
Think: grand ballroom, black tie, candlelight
Style: Copperplate, Spencerian
Ink: Black, gold, deep navy
Why it works: Structured and elegant—perfect for traditionalists
💫 Modern & Editorial
Think: city loft, fashion-forward couple, sculptural florals
Style: Loose script with asymmetry and personality
Ink: Custom tones, pastels, white on dark envelopes
Why it works: A mix of ease and intention—feels effortless and cool
🌿 Romantic & Whimsical
Think: garden ceremony, estate venue, vintage touches
Style: Flourished scripts with gentle curves
Ink: Blush, dusty blue, or earth tones
Why it works: Soft, nostalgic, and emotional
🖤 Bold & Artistic
Think: warehouse party, creative couple, high contrast
Style: Freeform, dramatic strokes, unexpected layouts
Ink: Black on cream, metallics, bold contrasts
Why it works: Showcases personality and presence
2. Traditional vs. Modern: What’s Right for You?
Here’s a quick cheat sheet:
FeatureTraditionalModernLook & FeelFormal, elegant, preciseOrganic, expressive, playfulBest ForClassic weddingsEditorial & romantic eventsInk ChoicesBlack, gold, navyCustom mixed pastels, white inkCommon StylesCopperplate, SpencerianLoopy scripts, hand-done flourishes
Not sure where you fall? You don’t have to pick a lane. I often blend elements to create a custom style that feels exactly like you.
3. Where Calligraphy Shines (Hint: It’s Not Just Envelopes)
Calligraphy adds elegance and emotion to all your wedding touchpoints:
Envelope Addressing – The first impression guests receive
Place Cards & Escort Cards – Polished tablescapes + guest clarity
Vows or Love Letters – Heirloom details you’ll cherish forever
Menus & Signage – Seamless visual storytelling from start to finish
💡 Pro Tip: Working with a single calligrapher for everything ensures consistency and cohesion.
Photo Credit: Meghan Lupyan Photography
4. How to Choose the Right Calligrapher
A great calligrapher will do more than write pretty letters. Here’s what to look for:
Portfolio with Range – You want to see classic, modern, and everything in between
Custom Ink Capabilities – Matching your palette is everything
Support With Etiquette + Process – It shouldn’t be a guessing game
Aesthetic Alignment – Your wedding, your vibe. Make sure they get it.
I guide my couples through every detail—from style selection to etiquette cheatsheets—so the experience is smooth, stylish, and secretly stress-free.
5. Make It Unforgettable
Calligraphy isn’t just a design choice—it’s emotional architecture. It sets expectations, sparks joy, and makes people feel seen.
Whether you're dreaming of modern minimalism or romantic flourishes, I’d love to help you choose the perfect style and bring your vision to life.